Death….is it even OK to talk about it?
In the Tarot cards the Death Card is seen as a transformational card. It means that something is coming to an end and that something new is forming. Like a Phoenix we rise from the Ashes. It doesn’t actually mean Death. Death in life though is more Final. No matter what your beliefs are and there has been much written about it in recent times so whether you believe in Reincarnation or that nothing happens to you……Death is… if your still living a mystery. 🙂
A few books in recent times the After Life of Billy Fingers click on the link to see
and Dying to Be Me
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have explained a few things that seem to me to be plausible or at least more inviting than “nothing happens to you” and both of the above Books I have read and really enjoyed.
I have been a “Tarot reader” for a number of years now and also tune into the spirit world…and people who have passed over definitely come through for Clients. I always have a sensation and feeling for what the person was like in Life, I guess because that is who the Client can relate to. I have yet to ask anyone what they are like in death. 🙂
It does seem to me though that Death has become much more talked about and more colorful. It was always so BLACK 🙂
When I was a Child my father died and I was not allowed to go to the funeral (it was just not the done thing) children were thought to be too young. That decision really affected my life for many years to come, of course I didn’t know it then and neither did my mother. Nowadays Children of any age are accepted at funerals and the funeral itself is more about a celebration of the Life that has been lived than ever before.
Abby Buckley is a Death Cafe facilitator and has held many open discussion groups around Death. Abby’s son died in a Motor Vehicle accident when he was just 22 and this opened up a whole new path for her to explore.
The Death Cafe is about talking about anything to do with Death.
Abby also facilitates Before I die Walls. This is a public Blackboard for you to write on the thing you want to do before you die. Travel, climb Mt Everest, Sing in Public, Volunteer in Africa etc etc..
It is a trigger to think about the things that are important to you that you never seem to get to while you are busy Living… earning an income, buying a house, having kids etc etc
So can we control death? LOL its a fallacy to believe we can. We are however these days able to control the funeral. We can even pay for it beforehand and write our own Eulogy. Mum has it all organised. LOL
Death itself though can come at any time. We can cheat it or we might think we can, but is that really the truth?
In my work as an Emotional Therapist Journey work https://ms342.isrefer.com/go/JEAU20170916/premajoy/ I have discovered that most of us have a Fear of Death and this Fear makes us super careful in life…we cling to material things to support our security.
To get over our fear of death we do the work on the inside and then the outside changes….. The more we talk about Death, can discuss it, the less frightening it becomes and then life becomes more rewarding. Thought I would leave you with this quote from the wonderful Steve Jobs.
No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new.
Live Life to the fullest! Love Prema
Di Goulding is also a Medium Clairvoyant Energy Healer who has a lifetime of experience with those that have Passed Over. she has her own website Inspired by Spirit.
https://www.inspiredbyspirit.com.au
If you would like a reading with Di or myself for that matter please get in touch with us. Me through this website or on the FB page or PM me.
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